My Hair: It’s Too Black!

On Christmas Day, I flat ironed my hair. The day before I washed and deep, deep, deep conditioned it.

I’m actually sorry I didn’t take a picture (see an example below). No big deal. Next time I straighten, and / or curl my hair, I will take one. I simply enjoy the comparison shots. I don’t take a lot of pictures, because it is hard to position, and setup, myself to get a decent shot. Outside of my brother (who lives in the South), no one in my family takes a satisfactory picture.

Not my face (I wish!) but, my hair after I styled it.


I show up at my parent’s house. My Dad says, “Is that all your hair?”

I start laughing. “It looks like a wig, right?”

He mumbled, “It’s too black. Did you color it?”

Mom speaks up, “Her hair looks nice. And it is not black, her hair is lighter than that.”

I said, “I don’t know why it looks this dark. I usually see a little brownish / reddish under the lights. Maybe it’s the castor oil or heat protectant cream I put in it.”

Dad makes indecipherable noises, and again I hear. “It’s too black.”

My uncle says, “Your hair looks good. All you use is castor oil?”

“That’s mostly what I use, after all these years, that’s all I need.” I’m thankful for the eyeglasses that keep the hair off my face.

A few hours later, my hair has climbed in height, getting shorter and puffier. I’m sweating, and I’m warm (could be the booze). By then, it’s late evening, and I’m fed up with my hair. I’m not sure that’s what’s making me hot, but I want it braided.

My uncle promises to provide the name of a hair braider he knows. He lives in northern New Jersey. I’m hoping she’s someone who wont braid tight, or try to remove all the hair from my hairline (edges). I’ve already had enough experience with that. No matter how much you ask, they still braid too tight!

Mom doesn’t like my hair braiding plan, “Why must you do that?”

Frankly, I don’t want to touch my hair for about 3 to 8 weeks, maybe longer, if I don’t get an itchy, irritated scalp. “I want to rest my hair and stop the breakage between some parts.” I point out the part at the top and behind my ears. It’s not serious, but I’d like to give those areas a rest.

The moment my Mom finished plaiting my hair: the sweating stopped and I felt a chill. I had no idea the hair was making me so hot! I prefer braided hair, the long, straightened curly style, is not something I’m used to.

I will do it again, long after I get the braids done.

An exaggerated example of my hair shrinkage. Yes, and I change complexions too!
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