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Narcissism for Black Women: The Very Good and Healthy Expression of Deep Self-Love, and Extreme Self-Devotion. Why? Because It's Good For Ya! And Sometimes I Write about Natural Hair, Among Other Things


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Pretty Man of the Moment: Ernestas Juodis

I grabbed these photos from the following website: Zack Burns – 1 and Zach Burns – 2.

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Natural Hair: Roller Set and Silk Wrap

I have to try this. I love her results. Except no matter what foam I use, my hair ends up hard. Maybe I will find a light weight oil to mix with it – like Coconut and some Shea Butter.

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Black Women and Our Mothers: Love Vs. Guilt by Oshun/Aphrodite

A stellar comment by Oshun/Aphrodite: You are being manipulated.  Ask me how I know. Just ask…  LOL Because I have been in your shoes!  Literally! My mother did a lot of right things by me, but she also did some bad things by me.  I think when you grow up and you have been taught […]

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Black Women: Starting Over, Moving On and Out

When is the best time to move? NOW. When is the best time to start over? NOW. Spring is a marvelous time of year to run from wherever we are to someplace better. Right now. The following quote comes from Monae: It’s not that easy to meet white guys where I live. It’s not like […]

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Pearl Jam: The Fixer

Pearl Jam – The Fixer from João Barreiros on Vimeo. Practically an old tune, but I enjoy hearing it. Relates to the last post with the “Fixer” approach of some men.

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For Black Women: Why White Men are a Better Choice

A topic guaranteed to make your teeth grind or make you smile. I am tongue in cheek, so if you don’t see any clarifications like the word some, I still don’t mean all. So, I’m looking around the web, and as a woman who likes men I’m seeing a positive development: black women affirming an […]

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Caprica Sucks

Why is this show so criminally bad? Why does it suck so bad? Why did a show with so much potential go wrong so fast? I couldn’t make it past episode four. With Battlestar Galactica at least I made it to the third year. It started off very very good and went downhill. I suspect […]

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As a Child

I used to decapitate my dolls. I used to set things on fire. Today, I’d take the shortcut and set my dolls on fire.

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Excitement

It costs money. It could be dangerous too.

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I’ve Found Jesus

Reply: I had no idea he was lost.

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When Black Women Choose To Date Inter-Racially, They Are Not Abandoning Their Race

The following quote comes from Womanist Musings Blog. She is so on point. The first love of a Black woman’s life should always be herself. We have been taught to devalue ourselves because this strengthens not only the Black male patriarchy but patriarchy in and of itself. Any man that refuses to treat you like […]

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