Blog Wars: I Am Always Right!

It’s confusing to peruse some blogs (I have read a lot!), and there will be a long winded, or short biting rant about persons X, Y, and Z. They may leave some crumbs as clues, but overall I don’t know who / what they are talking about. And do not care, for that matter.

I know blogs serve all kinds of purposes: people explore thoughts, issues, and answers. I am the last one to tell people what to write, but…. It distracts from the intended message. It changes the tenor of a good, vibrant blog to a boring, bloviating one.

I wish I could be amused, but it reminds me of Junior High School.

Words do have power. I hope everyone remembers that. Although I do not believe that wishing or praying (calling on God to punish people on one’s behalf) ever bears fruit. No, it does not. Well, maybe the person doing the evil wishing will probably get struck dead first. That I do believe.

Well Balanced: Equanimity

I was thinking about how invested a lot of us are in being right. It’s a fascinating phenomenon. Among women, it start with words. Among men, it takes the form of action, killing one individual to millions. I’ve watched enough altercations, in person, to know how quickly the war of words will escalate into something worse.

However, no matter how clearly we all try to write, intention, thoughts, and meaning will get misinterpreted. Folks, let these things go. Life is too short worrying about hammering a single, or even two, points home to a bunch of strangers, some of whom belong in a mental asylum.


Frankly, for me, all I feel is indifference, or neutrality. It is the best emotion to have when dealing with this online medium. If I start to feel emotional, heated or disturbed, I am gone. I definitely need other things to occupy my time.

How people write has zero correlation to the individual they are in real life. A snarky online persona may be just that – an online persona.

I’ve know people who cannot write a coherent sentence, but are very smart, sharp, and kind. There’s a lot invested in the written word, but it is (to some degree) a poor second to looking an individual in the face, watching his / her expressions, and listening to how s/he sounds.

Being right though, is a matter of perspective. What works for one individual, does not always work for another. Folks have to learn to let it go. There’s something to be said for not having the last word. It might make one appear an intelligent adult. Well thought out rebuttals are dandy, but after a time – enough already.

Employ some mental balance; learn to see things from the other side on occasion.

Getting off my soapbox….

I have been loving the weather this spring and summer: Sweet!

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