Coming Out of the Closet: I Lust After Asian Men

Posted on | July 22, 2012 | 29 Comments

{{Glances furtively over shoulder. Proceeds to type slowly and cautiously.}}

I’ve been harboring a big secret, but this is only between you and me. Okay?

Jeremy Lin

With the trading of Jeremy Lin – to Houston! – I’ve finally snapped. I feel like I’ve been teased and played by the Knicks. They get you thinking, “Yeah, maybe he’ll stay around. He’s looking better than ever. Maybe something special will happen… It’s happened before.”

I feel like I was waiting for the call about a 2nd date that never came.

Jeremy Lin was the only reason I was interested in the Knicks again. The team was looking good. Like an old boyfriend that’s put on 20 lbs of muscle, making more money at a better job and rocking that supa-fly Clark Kent look.

Instead, he turns out to be same ol’ guy in a different suit with the same ol’ stinking attitude. Loser!

KDramas

So, I’ve said I watch Korean Dramas for the “quality” of the shows.

I lied.

I only watch if the guys are smoking hot, otherwise, “Meh”. And these shows almost always guarantee a half naked man (usually showering) the first couple of episodes. All nicely tanned, muscular and tall actors. I don’t know the height of the average Korean male, but some of the guys they use are rather big. (Any man over 6’0″ to me is big.)

Wish I could do the casting call for those programs. Hey, I’d be happy to hang around and teach the guys conversational English.

I also like how the male actors don’t seem to go whole-hog the racial-mutilation-surgery route. They still look normal. Whereas a lot of the female actresses look downright scary, if not creepy from too much plastic surgery.

LifeStyle of the AfroAsiaphile

This is not a late development for me. I’ve been attracted to (and dated) Asian guys all of my life, and the attraction has been mutual. I’ve lived in neighborhoods and attended schools that had everybody. Now, I don’t make any specific distinctions between South Asians or those from the Far East. I don’t pretend to be a cultural curator where I know enough to be some kind of authority.

So, I’m someone who whenever I attend Asian culture events, I sit back, chill, and let ‘em tell me what’s what.

The thing is – in a lot of places where black people are – they are there as well. I’ve met Asians who are from Jamaica, Trinidad, Panama, European countries, Canada (such a foreign place), and I suppose wherever else you can imagine. I’ve met my share of Asian / black offspring since I was child, usually the result of a black mother / Asian father. For me, blacks and Asians being together in community is no big deal. Never was.

Unique

So, what is it that I ~~lust after~~ find attractive about Asian men?

Well, first and foremost it’s their “Good Hair”, of course. Nothing beats running your hands through such thick, silky, curly or straight hair. Mmmm. Sooo erotic. Once I bury my hand in there, it’s not coming out!

Ever really looked at their eyes? Some Asian men have eyelashes to die for. Women are out there spending billions to get their eyelashes on point, while these guys seem unaware they have such a beautiful fringe. I think it’s a shame when they get that eyelid operation. Something that unique should be celebrated. It makes the men look sexy. Dare I say, exotic? And I don’t consider that a bad word.

Although Asian men come in variety of hues – I seriously dig the golden tan to dark brown shades. Delicious. Especially on a buff body. Hmmm. Even though blacks and Asians share similar complexions, it’s not exactly the same, a lot of us seem to have red undertones (which is just as lovely don’t get me wrong).

I love the vibrant colors and jewelry that South Asian women use for special events. Just awesome. I have a few items I’ve worn on occasion.

They love to party and dance as hard as we do. And arrive just as late.

Kindness

I have been warned by Asian women that the Good Guy behavior of Asian men is sometimes just for show. I believe it’s because men will unconsciously behave better with women that aren’t a part of their group. Girlfriends (of all races) have always been real with me about how their men treat them, so I’m not one to write with rose colored glasses on.

However, I am awed and sometimes surprised at the kindness of Asian men. In my eyes, they exhibit another form of male generosity and masculinity that I enjoy.

What do I mean? Behavior that exceeds general courtesy. They have and will, whether I ask them for something, or not, if they know me some, will go out of their way to get me that item(s), assist or do me a favor(s). It’s wonderful, because they do not have this attitude that you will or should owe them something. Even profuse thanks seem to make them uncomfortable. It’s so adorable.

And hot.

I’m writing this in order to leave a favorable impression of non-black men with regards to their behavior towards black women (in this case, myself). Since I’m usually not one to put up my personal life in detail. My goal is to show that there are men of other races who do LIKE us, will TREAT us well, and make GREAT friends and lovers.

I love the idea of an Asian husband. Always have. Of course, it has to be whether we get along. And I know family carries a ton of weight in these relationships, so I don’t tread lightly.

Like / Love Who You Want To

People love to cite stats to make us feel unattractive or unwanted, but they’re working too hard at it. Remember that we are outliers: a tiny group – IR minded, adult, educated black women living in the West – within a racial minority, and those relationship stats will always reflect that. Don’t ever linger on them. They’re irrelevant.

So, I say all this to tell black women to look at all men, and ignore anyone who tries to make you feel less than.

Only the man that is interested in YOU can tell you why he’s attracted. No one else can.

… and some of the finest men I’ve ever laid eyes on and dated were Asian.

Comments

29 Responses to “Coming Out of the Closet: I Lust After Asian Men”

KM
July 22nd, 2012 @ 7:53 PM

I definitely co-sign this post! I have dated a couple of Asian guys and even though it didn’t work out, I love their work-ethic. The vast majority of Asian men are not going to let their families starve, they will do WHATEVER it takes to keep their family living a good life. Yes, there were familial pressure but you know, that didn’t affect my relationships because when it comes down to it, they were able to ignore their family (it also helped that they were in school for graduate school and not citizens. My American citizenship overcame my color to their families.)

I’d date another Asian guy, sure will.

GoldenAh: Even when single they hustle. Very admirable.

Thanks for being first to chime in, KM.
LorMarie
July 22nd, 2012 @ 7:54 PM

Wow, there are more black women who like Asian men than I thought.

GoldenAh: Yeah. Some of the nicest guys I know. I usually write that I like all men, but the discussions end up centering around white men. I use the expression non-black men as a short-hand, but I dislike it intensely. Yet, it can be too much bother to list all the races / ethnic groups out there.

By the way, I wanted to mention your children are beautiful. I almost feel a maternal twinge seeing them. Almost.
Shia
July 22nd, 2012 @ 8:27 PM

In love this post!

Queen In Hyun’s Man (the best drama of the year), I Need Romance 2, one of my favourite of the moment. Have you heard of tvN? Every drama I have seen from that Korean cable channel from 2011 and on has been a winner. I also think that watching Asian dramas has a direct connection to liking Asian men of course LOL. If there is ever a study on that I will volunteer.

GoldenAh: I’ve been meaning to review some of the shows I’ve watched. There are some themes that I see running from show to show. I don’t know if it’s deliberate, but it’s rather interesting. I’ve been seeing these “soul switching” stories for a bit, since Secret Garden. I haven’t touched on the historical dramas yet. I started with the action flicks and now I’m on romantic comedies.

I haven’t heard tvN. Is that a website? I don’t have cable, so I watch everything online.

I also think that watching Asian dramas has a direct connection to liking Asian men

And there you have it. What we see coming from the media helps form a strong perception of people. That’s why I don’t mind joining people in fighting tooth and nail to avoid showing us in a derogatory light. I’ve met my share of people who never met black folks and everything they think they know about us comes from that cesspool called Hollywood.

Great to hear from you, Shia.
Faith
July 22nd, 2012 @ 8:56 PM

(LAUGHING).

You’re making a grown woman blush!!

Keanu Reeves. He’s considered white, but he is in fact, Hawaiian and Chinese.

My Fassbender love is strong, but Keanu was my first serious actor crush!!!

And I’ve heard so many nice things about him.

GoldenAh: I can be discrete and naughty. Always had the hots for Keanu. I think that surfing flick (High Point?) with Patrick Swayze got me interested. I think like Johnny Depp – there are only a few movies of his I haven’t seen.
MzCasey
July 23rd, 2012 @ 1:23 AM

Coming out of glass closet to co-sign you with double high fives.
I am an avid watcher of Korean dramas and Korean TV shows in general. I rarely watch American television. I’ve been asked by friends and family why I watch these shows. I’ve gone on and on about the language, the relationships, enjoying a show I can watch (with anyone interested) and not have to feel embarrassed about overly sexualized or violent content. But I have to admit, it’s all of the above and the MEN. I never in my life thought of Asian men as sex symbols until I started watching K-dramas. It’s a bit embarrassing to tell people that I swoon over these men but when you look at men like Cha Seung Won, Hyun Bin and Daniel Henney, how can you not. Like I said, I also love Korean television-variety shows. 1 Night 2 Days (called 2 Days 1 Night in America) is a regular for me. It’s hilarious.
And don’t get me started on Korean and Japanese music idols. *sigh*

GoldenAh: Now that you’ve mentioned the music: when I watch the KDramas – I hear songs I really like, but I don’t know the name of the music, or where to find / purchase them.

Anyone have any ideas?

OMG. Daniel Henney. Yes.

Glass closet. I like that one.

Thanks for joining me in our celebration of Asian male hotness, MzCasey.
FoxyCleopatra
July 23rd, 2012 @ 7:47 AM

When I see a East Asian guy that is tall and good looking, I just whoosh!! Lol

GoldenAh: Mesmerizing. I can’t help staring. The guy must think I’m nuts.

I’ve never been interested in heading to the Far East as a tourist destination, but I’m becoming curious.
Zabeth
July 23rd, 2012 @ 1:24 PM

This >>> “People love to cite stats to make us feel unattractive or unwanted, but they’re working too hard at it. Remember that we are outliers: a tiny group – IR minded, adult, educated black women living in the West – within a racial minority, and those relationship stats will always reflect that. Don’t ever linger on them. They’re irrelevant.”

GoldenAh: It just cracks me up how certain folks spend so much time looking at a few black women dating IR. They NEED to put up study after study and stats about our relationships like it has something to do with them. Working it too hard. What are they scared of? They have too much vested in the image of unhappy, lonely and miserable black women. Bunch of maggots, parasites and emotional vampires.

Since the government routinely undercounts minority groups, esp. black people, why even bother to pay attention to marriage or relationship stats? You know what I mean?

Great to hear from you, Zabeth.
Black Women With Other Brothers
July 23rd, 2012 @ 6:41 PM

Hi Betty!
We linked this post on our new Facebook page and in a few hours hundreds of women have read this story and liked more of your stuff as well. Continue the good work!!

BWWOB FB

GoldenAh: Thank you for the link-love!
Eva
July 24th, 2012 @ 10:37 AM

Thank you so much for this. I wish more black women felt this way. I’ve felt that way since 1965 (no, I am NOT kidding when I say this)

“So, I say all this to tell black women to look at all men, and ignore anyone who tries to make you feel less than.

Only the man that is interested in YOU can tell you why he’s attracted. No one else can.”

Cosign this all the way! Black women, look at ALL MEN, regardless of race.

GoldenAh: Okay, I can’t go back that far. But around High School is where I started.

We deserve happiness in the arms of a good man, regardless of race. Who says we shouldn’t? Do we believe God loves us as much as everyone else?

Thank you for your comments, Eva.
Formavitaeformavitae
July 24th, 2012 @ 6:48 PM

Aahh…Nice!

I find Asian men attractive, as well. I love their commitment to family (though they frequently go “overboard”), and I think they would set a good example of manhood for my sons. AM and WM are my FAVES! It’s nice to give Asian guys a “shout out”, for a change.

GoldenAh: Next stop, Latinos!

The things I hear that they do for their families, fill me with awe. Yeah, overboard is right. Some of these guys literally work themselves to an early death, but it’s because they want better for their kids. Can’t blame them.

I always thought I was giving Asian men props on the sly, but I figure a post just for them alone would be nice.

Thanks for stopping by, Formavitae.
Formavitaeformavitae
July 24th, 2012 @ 6:53 PM

I should add that AM going “overboard” for their families is a benefit to their wives and children. I’m totally with KM.

GoldenAh: Understood. And I agree.
Mikey Tandino
July 25th, 2012 @ 9:56 AM

Alright, alright. I’ll jump in too. My faves from way back is Russel Wong, now I am totally in love with Sung Kang.

If truth be told, I prefer AM because of the eyes. I just love the way they look. Thats why Jeremy Lin in nerd glasses sitting on the Knicks bench did wonders for me.Im like wow, its Asian Clark Kent. Rowwrr!

Goldenah: OMG. Russel Wong. See, and folks knew he liked sistas too. So damn fine. Wonder what happened to him? Last film I saw him in was with Jet LI and Aaliyah. He had a TV show – sort of like Kung Fu – with that red head curly haired chick.

I just looked up Sung Kang. Interesting background. Good looking guy. And big too.

I fell out of the Furious Fast films, after losing interest in Vin Diesel. Maybe I’ll check out the Drift version and the last one that came out.

I love their eyes too. It adds something, you know?
MzCasey
July 25th, 2012 @ 8:54 PM

” Now that you’ve mentioned the music: when I watch the KDramas – I hear songs I really like, but I don’t know the name of the music, or where to find / purchase them.”
…………

I order my K-dramas and Korean and Japanese music from, Yesasia.com. I’ve never had a problem with them. If I can’t find what I want from Yesasia.com, I order from Hanbooks.com. Hanbooks is korean entertainment only. And believe it or not, Itunes. Itunes has an extensive amount of Korean music including OSTs. I bought soundtracks from Secret Garden, Boys Over Flowers and Greatest Love (also called Best Love) on Itunes.

GoldenAh: Oh, thank you so much, MzCasey. You mind reader! I was looking for music from Secret Garden. Blew me away the first time I heard it. It’s not even catchy or pop-like. Just has that touch of classical music.

I should have thought of iTunes…

Cha Seun-won has a sort of Cary Grant vibe in City Hall and Greatest Love. He has that suave, charming, fast talking, yet funny-guy thing going that he does so well. Love watching him.
hithere
July 27th, 2012 @ 1:37 PM

@MzCasey are you familiar with actor/singer Bi? he’s absolutely gorgeous

GoldenAh: Everybody loves a bit of Rain.
StarDust
July 29th, 2012 @ 7:08 AM

I love Asian men! But I don’t meet many black women, even ones who are into ir dating who feel the same way. When I tell them that I’m attracted to Asian men they give me that blank stare.

I will watch anything with Will Yun Lee, Sung Kang or Rain in it.

GoldenAh: Yeah, that’s been my experience. I’ve gotten “stank face” stares. I tell them I find men attractive, but I don’t get the mental hurdle(s). I understand preferences, but it is this attitude that they can express disapproval over what I ~~lust after~~ like to be annoying and hilarious at the same time.

Sometime ago, my Mom came to visit. I was watching a KDrama program and showed it to her. She took one look at Rain and said, “Oh boy, he’s cute.” This was rather amazing / amusing, because she doesn’t “see” Asian men as attractive.

So, I said, “See, now you know why I watch.” {{smirking}}
Jubilee
July 30th, 2012 @ 1:17 AM

I loke asian men as well. They tend to have strong family connections usually BUT they tend to be shorter and have a smaller build, and the ones i see on average who are tall, have a white dad or granddad. I am around 5’5″ and want the guy to be @ least 3 inches taller…..

GoldenAh: I’m surprised you have trouble finding a guy around 5’8″. I’m 5’7″ and in heels, I feel like an Amazon. I’m good with 5’9″ as long as he doesn’t slouch and he’s got meat (muscle) on his bones. Skinny guys I’m not crazy about either.

I live in NJ where we must have the shortest men – regardless of race – in the nation. It’s very dry here. Very dry. Whenever I head down south – the average height looks to be about 6’3″.

Thanks for your comment, Jubilee. Nice to hear from you.
Likwaterforchocolat
July 30th, 2012 @ 2:26 PM

Russell Wong recently turned up in an IKEA commercial where he portrayed one half of an Asian couple. Always though he was so handsome. Can you believe it? After being so great in New Jack City, Romeo Must Die and The Joy Luck Club? An Ikea commercial? He is still one striking looking man, though.

GoldenAh: Yeah… He still looks good. I’d hit that.
StarDust
July 30th, 2012 @ 3:20 PM

By the way am I the only one who didn’t know that Russel Wong has a daughter who’s half Black?

GoldenAh: Probably not. Been so long … it’s like an Urban Legend. He’s probably a grandfather by now.
samadhi101
July 31st, 2012 @ 12:22 PM

I’m a newbie to K dramas : I was pretty much won over by Coffee Prince, My Lovely Sam Soon, and The Fugitive: Plan B. (the producers obviously wanted ovaries to explode since cast Daniel Henney and Rain BI in the same show. Merciless!) Next on my list: You Are Beautiful, Secret Garden, Attic Cat, Playful Kiss, and Pasta.

I remember at an anime convention, I wandered into Korean Music video room and was unable to leave for an hour lol I was pretty much hypnotized by hot Asian guys singing R&B so passionately and I found myself actually enjoying hip hop again. So yeah I’m always checking for Asian guys lol
This an ad Camry did: it kept popping up while I watched Coffee Prince lol
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEAAKaur0jk

GoldenAh: My Lovely Sam Soon: I love that actress Kim Sun-ah. She’s too much. I think you’ll like City Hall too. It has Cha Seung Won – they have great chemistry, and it’s so funny (at least to me).

Yeah, Fugitive: Plan B was good too! Hilarious. I have a page on Daniel.

When you’re done with your list – check out all the shows that have the word “Flower” in the title. Supposedly, there’s a loose theme connecting the stories. I haven’t seen it yet. They are all entertaining though.

That’s it right there -> “passionately”. That is what attracts me to the music and dramas. It’s heartfelt. Stuff over here is so dry and cynical. Out of the top 20 songs – it seems like about 7 have the same recycled beat. They don’t even pretend to care anymore.
FoxyCleopatra
August 1st, 2012 @ 8:05 AM

I think Russell Wong is hot but I don’t get the hoo haa about him having a half-black daughter. Nonblack men find bw attractive (despite what bw are constantly told). A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman. Bring the most racist man and put a beautiful other race woman in front of him, you really think he wouldn’t find her attractive?

Nonblack men sleeping with bw is not the issue. It is these men dating AND marrying bw that is.

I’ve known he had a biracial daughter for years. From what I remember, her mother was a stripper he either had a one night stand with or a very brief sexual relationship with. There was no ‘we are dating each other’ thing going on. Now I do not know them personally but these are the details that came out. He however is doing the right thing and takes care/financially supports his daughter as far as I know.

That said, I don’t understand why his having a biracial daughter seems to make some bw more interested or like him more. I just don’t get that. If it is because it shows that he is attracted to bw, let me inform you, that would apply to MOST men on this planet! My sister was on a thread about him on imdb a few years ago and his biracial daughter came up. A lot of the women (mostly white) were surprised that he ‘got a bw pregnant’ because they didn’t know ‘asian guys were attracted to bw’. The men on the post however were not. Now these were various race men. They saw nothing odd about the fact the a nonblack man would sleep with a bw. However, some random black woman began praising him saying that she never knew about the daughter and feels so happy that he finds black women attractive. She said that she was now a fan and would be supporting his movies. Some of the people began to give her and bw underhand compliments (which were actually meant as insults) but this woman had so much low self esteem that she did not even realise. Some other black women were agreeing with her. It took my sister and 1 or 2 other bw to knock some sense into these women. I don’t mean to sound crude, but what is so good about the fact that an Asian actor was willing to have a/some booty calls with a bw? Why would that make a bw like him more? I would understand if maybe they had a relationship, but they had nothing of the sort.

GoldenAh: There’s no “special issue” here at all. Not everything requires it being analyzed to death. I expressed appreciation for Asian males. Note that the title says, “Lust.” If you’re looking for a special post on “How to Marry an Asian Male and Not Be Regarded as a Low Self-Esteem Black Slut” – I’m certain some other blogger can assist you.

I don’t know who Russell Wong has married, not married or will marry, and on this particular blog post – it really doesn’t matter. I wouldn’t mind someone as handsome as him, but that’s the extent of it. What you wrote about him, which is crude and low class, hasn’t changed my liking for him.

And as far as I remember, the mother of his child was his girlfriend. What she did for a living is irrelevant.

Frankly, I’m done with the slut shaming and calling black women strippers, hookers, hoes or low self-esteem or easy women just for sleeping with non-black men. This was something that annoyed the hell out of me, so much so that I wrote about it on the Bill Maher vs Wayne Brady post. Let me know if you are taking this same sledgehammer to 70% of the black women out there having babies for trifling black men. Are you also concern trolling black women who support abusive, ignorant black male entertainers and all their baby mammas? And are you calling them strippers and one-night-stands too?

Folks can miss me with this kind of garbage. Some of you do everything you can to make black women feel bad, because they appreciate some men making them feel good. It’s normal for women to want to be attractive to men. Stop being the Black Pussy Management Enforcers and leave these women alone. Nothing wrong if a small compliment makes them feel good about themselves. Lord-in-heaven, black women get beat up enough.

Lighten up, okay?
Likwaterforchocolat
August 1st, 2012 @ 8:50 AM

I live in Atlanta and I can agree about the height thing. There is a lot of AM/BW dating going on down here and I have noticed that most of the Asian men tend to be above average height around 5’10″ or more and they tend to have very athletic physiques. I recently dated a Hmong guy and he was solidly built and around 5’10″. I am 5’4″, so it worked for me.

GoldenAh: See! I knew I was living in the wrong area.

I think as long as they grow up here, the chances of them reaching average and above-average height kicks in, especially if they get into sports. Jeremy Lin is 6’3″; he towers over his older, younger brothers and parents.
Mikey Tandino
August 1st, 2012 @ 10:48 AM

Hey, Lets not sleep on commercials. If they still have the same business model, the actors in them receive money every time they run.

So its not exactly a bad idea. Also, it has happened where someone has been in a commercial, they get “recognized” and then all of a sudden they have a new gig.

And his last movie gig was in 2011.

As for his having a bi-racial daughter, I dont think anyone was going nutso over the fact. I think it was made more in passing, like “oh by the way”. Sometimes a comment is just that. Not some overreaching analysis on Black women liking him more because his daughter is half Black.

Maybe I misconstrued your comment FC, but it sounds to me like you went in on that topic so you could tear down the character of the child’s mother and make assumptions about what Russell uses Black women for.

GoldenAh: I looked at his profile on IMDB. You are right, commercials do revive interest in actors. The funny thing about that Ikea ad is that the woman looks way older than him. Not that there’s anything wrong with that.

I had the same impression as you did regarding the previous comment about Russell Wong.
LionMama
August 5th, 2012 @ 8:47 AM

Do your thing.

Personality I love a taller and bigger statued man as someone said.. Something about feeling safer or something primal like that lol.

GoldenAh: Depends on his build. If he’s 5’9″ and muscular, but not too stocky, I like that better than a 6’6″ gangly beanpole. I top out at 6’3″to 6’4″, anything taller than that usually doesn’t look good to me.
FoxyCleopatra
August 9th, 2012 @ 10:30 AM

Looking back at my comments I can see why it may seem harsh but tearing any one down was not my intention. I do not know the mother of his child or even what she looks like. My mentioning her job was just to say that from what I gather, they were not actually in a relationship. As for slut shaming, there is none going on here. I do not regard or view strippers as sluts. I view them as strippers. It is what it is. I don’t even criticise women who do it…but that is a whole ‘nother conversation. So my mentioning it was not in any kind of critiquing way.

As for when I said ‘low self esteem’, again it was not in reference to the mother of his child but to the women I spoke about on imdb. Only a stupid person or someone with seriouly low self esteem would take a comment like ‘you are smart for a black girl/woman’ as a compliment. That is what I encountered there. However I realise that when russel and the fact he has a biracial daughter was mentioned here, it was in a different context (just as a side comment) to the encounters I referred to on another board (bw now choosing to randomly support someones career because of it). This was a misunderstanding on my own part and I apologise for that.

As for what I said making anyone not like russell wong, that was completely not what I was getting at. I’m a big fan of him myself because I like his movies and think he is hot. I will admit that there are some nonblack male celebrities who I like because of a bw they are dating or married to. So the point I was getting at which I guess must have been lost in everything else I said was that if some bw here were liking him more because of some perception that he may like or ‘be into’ bw, him having a biracial daughter should not be used as the indication for that.

As for me over analysing things, well I completely agree with you on that one. I’ve been like that since I was a kid so I don’t see it changing anytime soon. Its just the way my brain works. As an engineer, it helps me, but in other situations like this, I guess it doesn’t lol. However, I will be honest and say that my comments are generally always going to be analytically slanted. I am slightly embarassed that it made me completely forget the initial point of this whole post. My bad! :$

GoldenAh: No problem. {{hugs}} No harm, no foul.

Thanks for explaining where you were coming from, FoxyCleopatra. I was a little afraid we were going to need police protection for Russell and his baby-Momma.
SFTiger
August 13th, 2012 @ 2:47 AM

As a Chinese guy, I find Olympian track star Allyson Felix super sexy and if I were younger I would pursue a serious relationship with her. Her smile is out of this world. Note that I said I would pursue her because if I say chase her, I don’t suppose I could ever run fast enough to catch her.

GoldenAh: LOL. She is amazing and lovely.

If I could be half as fit as her, I’d be thrilled. She can deadlift 270 lbs, despite her size. Awesome.

Thanks for stopping by, SFTiger.
BWMM
August 21st, 2012 @ 1:20 AM

I watched My Princess on Netflix and fell in love with KDramas. I also fell in love with the prof in the series. Now I like the lead guy the girl falls in love with, but I liked her first crush the professor as well. Dude was smokin.

GoldenAh: Oh, I remember that show! Really enjoyed it. I loved the eyelashes on the guy she fell in love with. The professor was very attractive too. But I give the edge to Mr. Eyelashes.
BWMM
August 21st, 2012 @ 1:28 AM

@MZCasey

“I never in my life thought of Asian men as sex symbols until I started watching K-dramas.”

I actually mention this on a blog post a while back when it came to Bollywood. Before Bollywood, Kollywood etc. I saw Indian men women, but never really saw them until I saw films by and for Indians. This also goes for other cultures/countries movie industries.

When I first started watching DDLJ I didn’t see SRK as hot by the middle of that movie I was in love with him for real. Then K3G really did it. Same with Gollywood/Nollywood. I think it’s the fact that you are seeing people in love stories as well as other genres mind you, but the love stories really do it.
Faith
February 3rd, 2013 @ 12:46 PM

Just watched The Man From Nowhere and wanted to let you know.

GoldenAh: Got that on my queue! I’m watching Ghost / The Phantom. Been wiping the drool off my face since the first episode….
Faith
February 3rd, 2013 @ 12:55 PM

Just because I’m curious I also went looking for info on Russell Wong and found a published photo of his now 25 year old daughter. http://fp.academic.venturacollege.edu/womensbasketball/07-08_VC_WBB/Profiles/Eja_Wong.htm

GoldenAh: Oh, she’s lovely. I am happy to see she turned out so well too.