Posted on | August 12, 2010 | 117 Comments
That got your attention, didn’t it?
Apparently, my old, old post Why White Men are a Better Choice was interpreted (by the mentally handicapped and functionally illiterate) as a heartfelt plea for black women everywhere to sex it up with all the nearest and available white men.
It seems that I’ve been successful at convincing “quality good black women” to go find themselves a white man and ignore all the “good black men” a.k.a. purple unicorns out there. I had no idea I had so much power.
Will everyone please help make me a multimillionaire?
I never mentioned sex. I mentioned marriage. Quite delightfully, black women who are married to or dating white men provided the most lovely, heartfelt and wonderful testimonies and feedback. Nearly all of them wanted or had a husband, nearly each and every one of them was reasonably happy with a man, who happened to be white, who treated them with respect, love, devotion, and protection (emotional and financial).
As far I’m concerned, a happy black woman is a wonderful thing. Interesting how people who worry about black women having sex with white men, never concern themselves with her happiness. Well, it’s because they don’t care about black women in the first place, but we already know that.
You’ve Heard This Propaganda Before
I’ll briefly go over the reasons people are against black women / white men unions. Tell me if it all doesn’t sound familiar.
In the following paragraphs, the “he” I’m referring to is a white man.
- He (the white man) just wants sex. Ans. So? Men like sex. So do a healthy number of women. I’d be disturbed if a guy was with me and didn’t want sex. I don’t mean jump in the sack immediately, but if he never showed any attraction, I’d be like: What’s up with that?
- He’ll use you and leave you. Ans. Black women are having more children out of wedlock with the “brothas” than those married to purple unicorns.
- LeBron James recently referred to his baby mama as a “sidekick”. Isn’t he supposed to be a purple unicorn? He’s leaving the sidekick and spawn behind while he seeks out lighter and brighter pastures in Miami. Anyone want to put money on a bet that his next chick will be Latina or white and he’ll want to marry her?
- White men raped our great-great-(number of greats may vary) grandmothers. Ans. I wont trivialize slavery or Jim Crow or any era people suffered through. However, I’m not a slave, and I’m not living in the past.
- Today’s white man isn’t the one raping and abusing black women in record numbers (see Dunbar Village and other atrocities). Plus, with the number of black men chasing down, co-habitating, and marrying white women, it is apparent the “brothas” have forgiven white women for getting black men lynched back in those days.
- Black men have no problem treating white women like queens, giving them all of his money, and by extension white men. I’ve always noticed that if a negro makes a lot of money, the first thing he’ll do is find a white woman to give it to.
- So what’s wrong with a black woman being with a white man who will marry her, stay around to raise the kids, provide financial support, and all that good stuff?
- His johnson is pink. Ans. Don’t underestimate the power of pink. Your stuff is pink too. (TMI coming: the color of his johnson may vary anyway.)
- His johnson isn’t big. Ans. How would you know the actual johnson size of 100 plus million men? Yes, that’s right there are over 100 million white men in America. Do all the black men who keep telling you this: have they peeked at all of them? Do all the black women who claim this: have they slept with all of them? And why are they obsessed with that?
- He can’t satisfy a black woman. Ans. At least he’s willing to use his tongue. For hours. Nuff said.
- It hurts black men to see black women with white men. Ans. Do any of those negroes out there who talk about how perfectly beautiful or hot the Kardashians, or any white women they are with, worry about any black women’s feelings? Don’t you get tired of hearing: “Black women are this and that – that’s why I only date white women”?
- Whether the black male is a family relation, friend, or a stranger you call a “brotha” who you date, sex, mate, and marry is really NONE OF THEIR BUSINESS. Their overinflated, easily bruised, excessively touchy, delicate and fragile egos are not worth the PRICE OF YOUR HAPPINESS. Frankly, if these negroes aren’t taking care of you and yours they need to GET LOST with a quickness.
- Their opinions aren’t worth a bucket of warm spit, and mine isn’t either. I’m certainly not here to tell you what to do.
- White men don’t find black women attractive, or they will not make you a wife. Ans. Does the number who are attracted really matter? You only need one good man.
- White men / black women have the lowest rates of divorce, even over white men with white women, and especially black men married to anybody even black women. Your own personal mileage will vary.
- At least with white men you can statistically find one that will actually like your hair, your complexion, your beautiful skin, your loving spirited personality, and just be into you, because you are an AWESOME BLACK WOMAN.
- Your children will grow up confused. Ans. This last one is my hypothesis: folks just don’t want to see the children of black women by white men receive the kind of privileges some white children have. If all black kids are in dire straights together people are comforted by that. However, if the exception turns out to be these children….
- Good black men exist! Ya’ll just want thugs. Ans. I never said disregard purple unicorns. If a black woman, or anybody, can find those extra 2 million plus purple unicorns that black women need for companionship, then wonderful!!! You’ve achieved a major miracle.
Now, that I’ve gotten that out of the way, I’ll repeat the header: Please have sex with white men.
Update: I’m always thrilled to get input by men. Frank M. just knocks it out of the park!
Betty. I decided to write my own answers for their arguments. Feel free to use or just read if you’re interested.
1. He (the white man) just wants sex. Ans. Companionship, friendship, and emotional support during good times and bad are just as important in any relationship. BW, in my experience, are fiercely loyal and supportive to those they love, so choosing to date a BW is NOT just about sex. How can BM use this argument with a straight face with all the fatherless kids running around the BC anyway? If anyone has PROVEN (through their actions) and promoted (through their music) that they just want sex, it’s BM.
2. White men raped our great-great-(number of greats may vary) grandmothers. Ans. What is more of a danger to a BW today? A man who has been dead for a hundreds of years?? Or the group of men harassing her on the street today? BM don’t rape? African countries are dealing with rape at epidemic proportions. And that is in within THIS decade. Rape within the black community in America is swept under the rug, but we all know it exists. I would argue that within the last 100 years, rape of BW is done by BM, not WM.
3. His johnson is pink. Ans. Actually it’s light brown, but thanks for being interested. LOL
GoldenAh: I fell out of my chair at this one. 😀
4. His johnson isn’t big. Ans. Judging by the compliments I’ve received from bw in bed, it’s big ENOUGH. LOL. All jokes aside, part of the reason BM are in the position they are in is because they judge too much of their masculinity and pride on something that doesn’t define a man. Being a man is about a lot more than your physical body. Choosing to identify all of your self-worth on one body part you had no control over is idiotic. This myth came from racists attempting to scare WW out of fornicating with blacks due to potential injury.
As humorous as that sounds, BM took this racist myth and made it a source of pride. They did the same thing with the “N” word. Neither of those reversals of racist ideas has benefited BM or black people in general. It’s time to let go of both of these. Most of us (non-BM) aren’t buying it anymore either. We’ve seen too many examples of BM who aren’t packing and it only gives all the average-sized BM an unnecessary inferiority complex that leads them to try and “prove” their manhood by acting like hyper-sexual, aggressive, violent homophobes or the super black militant crazies who secretly date WW. LOL Ok that last part was my personal theory.
5. He can’t satisfy a black woman. Ans. (Rolls eyes) Why? Are they are different species? Didn’t seem all that difficult to me. If they keep coming back for more, maybe I’m doing something right? I’ve met tall, thick, big-hipped women with smaller “canals” so the idea that they can’t be satisfied due to body type is ridiculous.
GoldenAh: Men can be so frank. 😀
6. It hurts black men to see black women with white men. Ans. Whose issue is that? Hers? Or yours. Get over it. Seeing WW with BM makes me feel nothing. She doesn’t belong to me, and I don’t possess her just because we happen to have a similar skin tone. Once again, get over it. Stop living in the past, plz. Thx.
7. White men don’t find black women attractive, or they will not make you a wife. Ans. I am a heterosexual man, therefore, I am attracted to WOMEN, of any race. I can’t help it, it’s in my biology. Neither can women. If anyone to say they are not attracted to an entire ethnicity, they are LYING . As for making a BW a wife? Hundreds of thousands of WM have and it is the fastest growing IR union in the USA. Theory over?
8. Your children will grow up confused. Ans. Children are individuals, and they can only be confused if they allow themselves to be confused by listening to negative/divisive opinions about who they are or should be. Think Obama is “confused”? Seems like a pretty well-adjusted evolved human to me. “Pure-raced” young people feel confused all the time so that theory holds no water for me.
9. Good black men exist! Ya’ll just want thugs. Ans. Wrong. Women want confident, secure individuals with strength. If thugs are the only BM’s projecting these qualities, then those of you weaker (Beta) BM might need to work on your self-confidence and attraction skills.
Also, in the white community, the alpha males are the most successful, not the least. You won’t see them them hanging out on street corners looking “fly” or languishing in prison. And for the BM who are doing legitimately well, they seem to choose the lightest, brightest BW or non-BW who will have them. This doesn’t leave a lot of attractive BM’s for BW to choose from.
What are they supposed to do? Or that’s right, wait for you to come along, so you can string them along until you are done using them for your own personal desires. LOL I think BW are finally wising up to that game.
GoldenAh: As we can see here, even by casual observation a white man can see the game being played on black women. Wooo.
Awesome feedback, Frank M. Thanks.