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Are you interested in international romance? The following is a list of sites recommended by Lorraine Spencer. As usual always verify (vet! vet! vet!) who you are chatting with. There are hustlers everywhere and some folks overseas think every American is a millionaire.

So, no matter what they say (stranded in another country, sick relatives, he needs an emergency loan, etc.):

  • NEVER, EVER send money, and
  • NEVER, EVER accept any kind of “monetary” gifts (you would be giving out too much personal / banking info., but you already knew that, right?)

I checked every link, but if any come up funky let me know.

Happy man hunting. 😉



Hi Ladies,

This is a listing of dating sites that barely scratch the surface of what is out there. If you are interested in meeting men overseas I recommend checking some of them out. Most are free and most will include people from the US as well. It seems that some of these sites will overlap or be applicable for more than one country on your preferences list.

Some of the sites may be suspect or scam magnets. Unfortunately, this is part of what we have to deal with when deciding to look online for love. You will have to be shrewd in your dealings with anyone you choose to contract or respond. Forget about winks and those time wasters. I recommend joining 3 or 4 paid sites and 4 to 5 free sites.

This is a small investment when you consider that you are looking for a husband. It is a full time job looking for a mate ladies. That may mean contacting ten to 15 men a day for each site.

If they are interested, they will respond and take the lead. Do your research on a country where you would not mind living and go from there. Men will also contact you so I recommend a at least 3 nice pictures or snap shots. Non seductive type pictures are best.

Also, chestbearing and shirtless men tend to concentrate on the superficial and outward appearance so I suggest passing those on by but that is a personal choice. I also recommend a matchmaker if you can afford it.

Good luck!!!

Lorraine Spencer



National and International

Australian Dating Sites

New Zealand




This is a comprehensive listing  of Denmark’s free and paid sites. Click this LINK for the list.





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